Sitting down with the part of you that wants the change and the part that keeps protecting the old behavior, and getting them to agree on terms.
The part chasing rescue and the part counting the cost are brought into one conversation.
A direct, layer-by-layer descent from the surface complaint to the original decision underneath it.
We trace the urge down to the specific relief being sought — usually not money.
Changing the meaning attached to an event or urge so the same facts stop producing the same reaction.
The near-miss is reframed so it stops reading to your nervous system as progress.
Rehearsing the new response in the exact situations where the old one used to run.
Payday, the app icon, the drive past the casino: each is rehearsed with a different ending.